My friend wrote;
“You ever seen people that look so very happy and get a bit jealous? You think to yourself they never have to deal with the drama I deal with. You know why? Because they just don’t deal with it. People want to start drama and they just cut them out of their lives. You can be just as happy.”
I wrote back;
“Exactly. It took me years to learn that. Avoid someone else’s drama like avoiding herpes and you will have a much happier life. — Just like herpes, if you give into someone’s drama, they keep coming back. Let them spread that shit to someone else.”
Also, if you spread a little drama around, people will think it is ok to bring it back to you. Again, just like Herpes, if you have it, keep that crap at home, do something to clear it up, and keep others from bringing it to you.
As a side note: Most people you see, whom seem happy, are just keeping their drama under wraps. They are not “altogether” as you think. Heck, their lives are just as messed up as everyone else’s life, but, they don’t spread it around.